I really cant believe this!. all of a sudden i'm pushing 30 and wondering how the hell that happened and why i still feel younger cuz am still searching for the perfect one .i am a really plain and simple lady. i basically try to be the best person i can be and let everything else just fall into place. i have a good heart and tend to put myself on the back burner for the other people in my life. sometimes things don't make sense. it's not simple or logical. you can't control every situation and no matter how hard you try to plan things they'll lead you down whatever path was meant to unfold.